Comments on: What She Doesn’t Know Will Kill You http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/ Personal Website of Philip Huang Sat, 13 Mar 2010 03:26:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: izzie http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/comment-page-2/#comment-35450 izzie Fri, 08 Jan 2010 02:54:01 +0000 http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/#comment-35450 hey all. izzie again. ive been reading through all these posts and i just wanted to comment on what ashley said. she really hit on a good point when she says that us guys shouldn't just end the friendship with a girl just because our expectations and hopes of love were smashed into a million pieces. i think it's so true that there's a reason why these girls want us in their lives as friends. a lot of the time romantic relationships start and fizzle down, usually ending in hurt feelings and burnt bridges. as for frienships, if both people sacrifice and are honest with each other, they will last for a very long time. i know it sucks when you feel like you're being taken for granted. sometimes when i don't hear from this certain someone for days i feel like im being used. i ask myself "does she really care?" and "does she really mean what she says when she says she values our friendship more than almost anything in her life."? i can go on and on.... it's like i need more proof from her that she's not just using me. like i feel that if im such a good friend and that she can turn to me for anything, then wouldn't it make sense for us to be together? after all, isnt that what any girl would want in a romantic relationship? consistency, care, security, comapssion, loyalty...? so what's the deal ladies? seriously. i guess it's true what they say that men are from mars and women are from venus. why do i even bother trying to figure it all out anyhow? i just end up dizzy and hella frustrated. one thing i do know for sure is that i don't wanna be a dark spot in her life. i wanna be someone that lifts her up when she's down; that is always there when there's no one else to turn to; that knows just what to say and just what to do to make her die laughing; that never judges or expects her to be anything but herself; that is a constant and consistent positive male influence in her life; that maybe reminds her of her dad or older brother; that will love her with all his heart even when she feels like she's not worth it; that will never leave her side just because i didn't get the answer or outcome i was looking for.... as im sitting her in this hotel room, i cant help but look at my phone over and over. is the volume all the way up? how many bars do i have? she said she was going to text (which was 9 hours ago). is she with him? then my heart twists and burns, and the fire slowly trickles down my gut and my eyes water up, again and again. although i now realize this.... she needs me, and i should stop being selfish. no matter what happens in our relationship, ill always be there for her, because you never know. years down the line when my name crosses her mind, i want her heart to be filled with happiness and her lips to smile that cute little smile, cause she knows im still there. i cant be selfish. God put me in her life for a reason, and if that reason calls for me to just be her friend, then im honored and privileged to be that man in her life. to be a man is to sacrifice and realize. to realize that the hope and love you give her will last her a lifetime, and boyfriends come and go. there's always a possibility that something will happen between us, and that's good enough for me. much love guys and girls... spread the love and encourage each other. i always try and remember that it's not all about me. isra alvarez hey all. izzie again. ive been reading through all these posts and i just wanted to comment on what ashley said. she really hit on a good point when she says that us guys shouldn’t just end the friendship with a girl just because our expectations and hopes of love were smashed into a million pieces. i think it’s so true that there’s a reason why these girls want us in their lives as friends. a lot of the time romantic relationships start and fizzle down, usually ending in hurt feelings and burnt bridges. as for frienships, if both people sacrifice and are honest with each other, they will last for a very long time. i know it sucks when you feel like you’re being taken for granted. sometimes when i don’t hear from this certain someone for days i feel like im being used. i ask myself “does she really care?” and “does she really mean what she says when she says she values our friendship more than almost anything in her life.”? i can go on and on….

it’s like i need more proof from her that she’s not just using me. like i feel that if im such a good friend and that she can turn to me for anything, then wouldn’t it make sense for us to be together?
after all, isnt that what any girl would want in a romantic relationship? consistency, care, security, comapssion, loyalty…? so what’s the deal ladies? seriously. i guess it’s true what they say that men are from mars and women are from venus. why do i even bother trying to figure it all out anyhow? i just end up dizzy and hella frustrated. one thing i do know for sure is that i don’t wanna be a dark spot in her life. i wanna be someone that lifts her up when she’s down; that is always there when there’s no one else to turn to; that knows just what to say and just what to do to make her die laughing; that never judges or expects her to be anything but herself; that is a constant and consistent positive male influence in her life; that maybe reminds her of her dad or older brother; that will love her with all his heart even when she feels like she’s not worth it; that will never leave her side just because i didn’t get the answer or outcome i was looking for….

as im sitting her in this hotel room, i cant help but look at my phone over and over. is the volume all the way up? how many bars do i have? she said she was going to text (which was 9 hours ago). is she with him? then my heart twists and burns, and the fire slowly trickles down my gut and my eyes water up, again and again. although i now realize this…. she needs me, and i should stop being selfish.

no matter what happens in our relationship, ill always be there for her, because you never know. years down the line when my name crosses her mind, i want her heart to be filled with happiness and her lips to smile that cute little smile, cause she knows im still there. i cant be selfish. God put me in her life for a reason, and if that reason calls for me to just be her friend, then im honored and privileged to be that man in her life. to be a man is to sacrifice and realize. to realize that the hope and love you give her will last her a lifetime, and boyfriends come and go. there’s always a possibility that something will happen between us, and that’s good enough for me.

much love guys and girls… spread the love and encourage each other. i always try and remember that it’s not all about me.

isra alvarez

]]> By: izzie http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/comment-page-2/#comment-35032 izzie Wed, 16 Dec 2009 07:06:26 +0000 http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/#comment-35032 oh yes... definitely been in this situation before. it's true that once you get to a certain point in a friendship, and you haven't clued her in as to how strongly you feel, it is nearly impossible for you two to be more than just good friends. The guy that's always there for her, that she turns to for everything, that she calls of texts constantly when she's goin through stuff with her bf; yet, when all is peachy keen she is nowhere to be found. story of my life. it's just the way it is. in a way...im honored to be someone they can turn to when they're down, but it's hard. it's innate to want and be wanted by someone else, and when you're friendship and loyalty is being taken for granted, you sometimes just don't know how to feel. this is a hard situation to be in. but i think it is so beautiful. it's life. im always gonna be the nice guy, no matter how much other dudes say i should be an a-hole to get girls, im not gonna change cause i know there are girls out there who know what's real. and if she doesn't, than someone else will. but i know....it's FREAKIN TORTURE! haha! take care peoples! love... izzie oh yes… definitely been in this situation before. it’s true that once you get to a certain point in a friendship, and you haven’t clued her in as to how strongly you feel, it is nearly impossible for you two to be more than just good friends. The guy that’s always there for her, that she turns to for everything, that she calls of texts constantly when she’s goin through stuff with her bf; yet, when all is peachy keen she is nowhere to be found. story of my life. it’s just the way it is. in a way…im honored to be someone they can turn to when they’re down, but it’s hard. it’s innate to want and be wanted by someone else, and when you’re friendship and loyalty is being taken for granted, you sometimes just don’t know how to feel. this is a hard situation to be in. but i think it is so beautiful. it’s life. im always gonna be the nice guy, no matter how much other dudes say i should be an a-hole to get girls, im not gonna change cause i know there are girls out there who know what’s real. and if she doesn’t, than someone else will. but i know….it’s FREAKIN TORTURE! haha! take care peoples!

love…
izzie

]]> By: Pari http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/comment-page-2/#comment-34648 Pari Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:21:36 +0000 http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/#comment-34648 Simply love it :) If I would be in that girl's situation I would wanna know way before she was told. Simply love it :)

If I would be in that girl’s situation I would wanna know way before she was told.

]]> By: My Blog » Blog Archive » What he doesnt know will kill you http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/comment-page-2/#comment-27299 My Blog » Blog Archive » What he doesnt know will kill you Thu, 16 Oct 2008 05:31:52 +0000 http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/#comment-27299 [...] What He Doesn’t Know Will Kill You [...] [...] What He Doesn’t Know Will Kill You [...]

]]> By: Sarah http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/comment-page-2/#comment-26446 Sarah Tue, 19 Aug 2008 18:57:24 +0000 http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/#comment-26446 this is the cutest thing ever!!!!!! i would LOOOOOOOVE if i had someone feel the exact same way.......thing is....this is exactly how i feel about one of my best friends.... this article is pretty much perfection 0=) this is the cutest thing ever!!!!!! i would LOOOOOOOVE if i had someone feel the exact same way…….thing is….this is exactly how i feel about one of my best friends…. this article is pretty much perfection 0=)

]]> By: Sebastian http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/comment-page-2/#comment-15261 Sebastian Mon, 21 May 2007 19:42:48 +0000 http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/#comment-15261 It makes you think alot!I meen i love my best friend we just broke up after a 4 weeks relationship and I want here so bad back because she is the first person I realy love! It makes you think alot!I meen i love my best friend we just broke up after a 4 weeks relationship and I want here so bad back because she is the first person I realy love!

]]> By: michele http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/comment-page-2/#comment-14668 michele Thu, 26 Apr 2007 06:14:17 +0000 http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/#comment-14668 perfect perfect

]]> By: jess http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/comment-page-2/#comment-14472 jess Sat, 14 Apr 2007 15:48:31 +0000 http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/#comment-14472 and maybe if she didn't feel the same way she'd totally appreciate it because it was the first time a guy has actually noticed her..that means a lot to a girl...i should know ;] and maybe if she didn’t feel the same way she’d totally appreciate it because it was the first time a guy has actually noticed her..that means a lot to a girl…i should know ;]

]]> By: jess http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/comment-page-2/#comment-14471 jess Sat, 14 Apr 2007 15:44:12 +0000 http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/#comment-14471 awwwwwwwww :) i think its something every girl would wish to get in her locker first thing in the morning and then turn around to see that guy standing behind her and realize she always felt the same way he did awwwwwwwww :) i think its something every girl would wish to get in her locker first thing in the morning and then turn around to see that guy standing behind her and realize she always felt the same way he did

]]> By: shirley http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/comment-page-2/#comment-14168 shirley Tue, 20 Mar 2007 02:10:18 +0000 http://www.philhuang.com/2005/09/13/what-she-doesnt-know-will-kill-you/#comment-14168 i love this, it's great. i love this, it’s great.

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